Tottenham’s difficult Premier League campaign took another hit at the weekend, and once again Cristian Romero found himself at the centre of the fallout. The Spurs captain was sent off for the second time this season during Saturday’s 2-0 defeat at Manchester United, prompting manager Thomas Frank to publicly address both Romero’s leadership qualities and his need to rein in his aggression.
Romero saw red for a reckless lunge on Casemiro, a moment that left Tottenham chasing the game with ten men and deepened their league troubles. The dismissal means the Argentine centre back will serve a four match suspension, ruling him out of domestic action until mid March and adding to a growing list of absentees for a side already stretched thin.
Speaking ahead of Spurs’ next fixture against Newcastle United, Frank struck a balanced tone. He was clear that Romero remains a leader within the squad and insisted he has no plans to strip him of the captain’s armband. At the same time, the manager acknowledged that Romero must learn from these moments if he is to fulfil his role effectively.
Frank described Romero as a young leader who is still developing his understanding of the game and of leadership itself. He reflected on his own experiences, noting that passion and aggression can be powerful tools, but also dangerous ones if not controlled. For Frank, Romero’s intensity is not the problem in itself, but it does require better judgement in high pressure situations.
The timing of Romero’s suspension could hardly be worse. Tottenham are currently 15th in the table, just six points above the relegation zone, and are in the middle of a seven game winless run in the Premier League. Frank did not shy away from the seriousness of the situation, admitting there is no doubt Spurs are desperate for victories and fully aware of the danger they are in.
Injuries have compounded the problem. Defender Destiny Udogie has been ruled out for four to five weeks with a hamstring injury, further weakening a back line already missing key personnel. Earlier this month, Tottenham were forced to face Manchester City with only 11 fit senior players available, a situation that underlined how fragile the squad has become.
There is also uncertainty surrounding the fitness of Dejan Kulusevski, who has not played since suffering a knee injury in May. Frank admitted there is still no clear timeline for his return, hinting that his absence from the Champions League squad suggests a comeback is not imminent.
Despite the growing pressure, Frank remains focused on short term solutions rather than sweeping changes. He reiterated that Romero’s leadership is important, particularly in difficult periods, but stressed that learning from mistakes is non negotiable. The challenge now is to channel aggression into controlled performances that help the team rather than hurt it.
With key matches looming and little margin for error, Tottenham’s season is entering a critical phase. How Romero responds to this setback, and how Spurs cope without him, could go a long way toward deciding whether desperation turns into recovery or deeper trouble.

